My Parents Were Right

Maria Agnese, the oldest of five siblings, is 36 years old and has Down syndrome. For the past 11 years, she has lived in a group home and works in a nursing facility, where she handles errands and takes photographs.
My Parents Were Right
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Archival content: this article was published more than 20 years ago. The language and content reflect the sensitivities of the time.

One by one, my brothers and sisters left home. My mother told me I needed to become independent too. I was a little sad about leaving the family. Once I was there, I was happy—but I missed them. I live in the group home Monday through Friday. I go home on weekends to be near my parents (I live in two rooms above their house), though sometimes I stay at the group home instead.

My first family is my parents.
My second family is my friends at the group home.
My third family is Fede e Luce.

What do I see in my future?
I don't think about it much. I can't get married because of my handicap and my medications. It would be hard for me to take care of children with my handicap. I'd rather be an aunt. I have two godchildren. The group home will be my home. My mother told me that after she dies, my brother Umberto will take care of my documents.

My parents will speak to me in my heart when they are no longer here.

- Maria Agnese, 2002
(O. et L. n. 137)

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