You Don't Divorce Your Children—Staying Good Parents After Separation

Anna Oliverio Ferraris, Rizzoli, 2005
You Don't Divorce Your Children—Staying Good Parents After Separation
You Don't Divorce Your Children - Separating and Remaining Good Parents Anna Oliverio Ferraris - Shadows and Lights n.92, 2005
Archival content: this article was published more than 20 years ago. The language and content reflect the sensitivities of the time.

In this essay, the author draws on firsthand accounts from Italy's first generation of children whose parents divorced, offering practical guidance on surviving the trauma of separation. Her central argument is simple but powerful: a divided family continues to exist because parents do not divorce their children (except in extreme cases). Parenthood, she shows, endures for life. When understood and integrated, a separation can become a turning point toward greater peace for the whole family.

The book is engaging and accessible—valuable not only for those navigating divorce themselves, but for anyone curious about the emotional dynamics that unfold within families in crisis.

Laura Nardini, 2005

Laura Nardini

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