Some people have heard about it, but few know much about what it actually is. So let's set the record straight with some concrete facts.
The "little house" is meant to be a brief experience of life lived in common. It happens twice a month, at the Nazareth institute, from ten in the morning until around five in the evening.
A large group of young people and a few adults take turns attending these two Sunday gatherings. On the Friday before, they meet to plan the day and decide whom to invite.
Each Sunday, they invite about ten friends—children and young people with various kinds of difficulties and challenges.
A typical day goes like this: roughly half an hour of greetings and welcome, followed by two or three different activities throughout the morning.
Only those scheduled for lunch preparation focus on that task, working to have everything ready by one o'clock.
The meal itself usually unfolds in an atmosphere of quiet joy—with rare exceptions—because serving duties are shared around, the food is generally excellent, and there's something beautiful about eating together at a table.
Then those on cleanup duty clear everything while the others enjoy moments of fellowship or solitude, laughter or peace. They wait for games to begin—games designed so that everyone, in their own way, can join in and have fun.
Around four o'clock comes Mass. We gather again around a table where we eat together. Each person brings their own faith, their own insights, their own limits, and lives out the promise and hope of true bread for nourishment, true friendship as love, true life as life itself.
What do we hope to achieve with these days spent together?
Honestly, they're so beautiful and enjoyable that joy alone would justify them. But there are other important goals we should check in on from time to time.
For instance:
- The little house is meant to be a service. Many families desperately need a Sunday that's different, freer, without obligations. But to meet even a fraction of this need, we'd need many more little houses spread across different neighborhoods, allowing more frequent invitations and reaching friends who've never been invited at all.
For now, the encouraging news is that the model works and can accomplish much. Beyond that, - The little house aims to help us get to know each other. And for this, nothing beats life in common. Getting to know one another is essential—it frees us from our mutual fears, lets us relax, and moves us forward. But there's still a long way to go in this direction, both in building regular attendance and in making better use of our time together for this purpose. Still, as we move forward, we'll find the way.
There's one more goal the little house perhaps didn't set out to accomplish, but has achieved anyway: it's become a bridge and a link between the different Faith and Light groups in Rome. The young people and adults who participate belong to different groups, and this helps friendships and ideas circulate, strengthening the common life of the whole movement.
But what matters most—what circulates in the little house and gives it soul—is the spirit of welcome. You can see it especially in the final moments of the day, which inevitably turn into a celebration.
Nobody wants to leave. Out of nowhere come a couple of cakes. Guitars start up again. Only goodbyes—so many goodbyes—finally allow the gathering to break up.
Lucia Bertolini, 1978
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