Summer vacation can be the hardest, most exhausting time for a family with a disabled child. Without a suitable home to go to, they must leave their familiar environment—where understanding has quietly taken root, where a basic solidarity exists, where curiosity and embarrassment have finally dulled—and travel elsewhere. There, they often face rejection, prejudice, pity, and intrusive stares. The price of a holiday becomes unbearable.
One solution is to open unused homes to these families. Homes that sit empty for part or all of the year. Some people do this.
For seven summers, Francesca Biondi has lent her house in Alfedena, in the Abruzzo National Park, to families in July.
On what terms?
Only that there be one responsible person in charge of the group. I want everything to run smoothly so I don't damage my relationship with the village.
Have there been difficulties?
The first year, when the group came through, doors would close. Now doors open. There's always something to eat or drink.
What made you offer your home?
No direct reason, like having a disabled family member. The reason was simpler: when I'm not using something good, it's right that others should enjoy it.
Has there been damage?
The small wear and tear that any family causes—the same damage we make ourselves. And each time, I've been offered full compensation.
Do houses need special features?
A bit of garden is very helpful. An enclosed green space.
Have you tried other ways to help families with disabled children?
I've tried and seen others try hosting during vacations—both disabled children and their younger siblings. It's important support for family stability. It helps if the host family has at least one child close in age to the guest.
If you have a house—large or small—that sits unused and you'd like to offer it to a family or group, write to Ombre e Luci.
We know families who haven't had a vacation with their son in twenty years.